Comments on: Friendless http://jess.tub-r.com/2007/08/26/friendless/ My Views and Opinions upon Life Fri, 04 Jan 2008 07:28:08 +0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Bell http://jess.tub-r.com/2007/08/26/friendless/comment-page-1/#comment-1945 Bell Sat, 25 Aug 2007 22:01:01 +0000 http://jess.tub-r.com/2007/08/26/friendless/#comment-1945 Hey Jess, be strong ok? I know exactly how you feel, because I've been there, friends... no friends... loneliness... wanting to be alone... feeling alone even though you're surrounded by people who seem to be friends... breaking ties and making new friends and maybe later on re-acquainting yourself with old friends... it's all part of life and growing up. We all move on after a while. What Criz said is exactly right, no one suits ALL of our needs 100%... I have certain people I wanna be with when i just want to have a talk over coffee, a different friend if i don't wanna eat alone but don't wanna hang out, another friend if i feel like a party... that's just the way people are jess. If you ever need someone to chit chat with and while away the lonely hours... Criz is always online >. Hey Jess, be strong ok? I know exactly how you feel, because I’ve been there, friends… no friends… loneliness… wanting to be alone… feeling alone even though you’re surrounded by people who seem to be friends… breaking ties and making new friends and maybe later on re-acquainting yourself with old friends… it’s all part of life and growing up. We all move on after a while.

What Criz said is exactly right, no one suits ALL of our needs 100%… I have certain people I wanna be with when i just want to have a talk over coffee, a different friend if i don’t wanna eat alone but don’t wanna hang out, another friend if i feel like a party… that’s just the way people are jess.

If you ever need someone to chit chat with and while away the lonely hours… Criz is always online >.

]]> By: Criz Lai http://jess.tub-r.com/2007/08/26/friendless/comment-page-1/#comment-1944 Criz Lai Sat, 25 Aug 2007 18:12:16 +0000 http://jess.tub-r.com/2007/08/26/friendless/#comment-1944 Jess...I saw...I realized...I felt that something has gone wrong when you just disappeared totally for weeks. How I wished I could just turn back the clock to the day that I was energetic and jumping around happily. How I wished that I would not be sick for so long that I will be able to come here at the root of your loneliness before it erupted until this stage. How I wished I could be there to listen, comfort and advise you when you are down. Do not forget. Everything that happens has its own reasons. Friends are just temporary measurements for you to pull through in your life. It is not that you do not have friends at all. You have a lot out there but you tend to over filter your group of friends until you have practically no one left that suit your need. There is no such thing as someone that is 100% perfect to your likings. No one is perfect unless he is God himself. There is no point of you being a recluse too because of being rejected/not invited to certain events. There are still more to come ahead. For me loneliness do not exist in my vocabulary. On and off, I might or might not have friends calling me out for outings. Even though I was invited, it also did not mean that I will accept their invitations. Sometimes, I did feel that having some time of my own is more worthwhile. Firstly, it did save me time and money. Secondly, I will not be committed to anyone and I have more free time to do my own things such as gaining more knowledge and researching for useful blog articles. Loneliness depends on how we handle it tactfully and openly. Why hide from others the truth when you could just tell them directly that you are lonely because no one ever invited you to be in part of their outings. Directness is important. Hiding yourself from reality does not help you at all. You become more stressful for you actions. I am sure you regretted not telling them the truth now, right? Jess...do not forget that you are not alone. There are still people out that who care and concern about your welfare. It lies only within yourself whether you want to open up and share that feelings of yours with them or not. I will be here if you need a person to talk to. You can email me or just msn me and I will get back to you soonest possible. Take care ya and be strong. This is not the ending of everything. Life has to go on and hiding away surely would not help. Have a good day then! Jess…I saw…I realized…I felt that something has gone wrong when you just disappeared totally for weeks. How I wished I could just turn back the clock to the day that I was energetic and jumping around happily. How I wished that I would not be sick for so long that I will be able to come here at the root of your loneliness before it erupted until this stage. How I wished I could be there to listen, comfort and advise you when you are down.

Do not forget. Everything that happens has its own reasons. Friends are just temporary measurements for you to pull through in your life. It is not that you do not have friends at all. You have a lot out there but you tend to over filter your group of friends until you have practically no one left that suit your need. There is no such thing as someone that is 100% perfect to your likings. No one is perfect unless he is God himself. There is no point of you being a recluse too because of being rejected/not invited to certain events. There are still more to come ahead.

For me loneliness do not exist in my vocabulary. On and off, I might or might not have friends calling me out for outings. Even though I was invited, it also did not mean that I will accept their invitations. Sometimes, I did feel that having some time of my own is more worthwhile. Firstly, it did save me time and money. Secondly, I will not be committed to anyone and I have more free time to do my own things such as gaining more knowledge and researching for useful blog
articles.

Loneliness depends on how we handle it tactfully and openly. Why hide from others the truth when you could just tell them directly that you are lonely because no one ever invited you to be in part of their outings. Directness is important. Hiding yourself from reality does not help you at all. You become more stressful for you actions. I am sure you regretted not telling them the truth now, right?

Jess…do not forget that you are not alone. There are still people out that who care and concern about your welfare. It lies only within yourself whether you want to open up and share that feelings of yours with them or not. I will be here if you need a person to talk to. You can email me or just msn me and I will get back to you soonest possible.

Take care ya and be strong. This is not the ending of everything. Life has to go on and hiding away surely would not help. Have a good day then!

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